Wednesday, January 7, 2009

dalihan na tolu

i just finished reading topic written on rumametmet.com about dalihan na tolu.
...manat mardongan tubu, elek marboru, somba marhula-hula...
hmm...i believe it's sounds familiar. for sure we know what the phrase talking about.
--respect the men of the families, love the women of the families, praise wife's families--
hmm..man it's even stranger in english...hehehehe....but let's talk about it a little bit.
i had been many places around the countries, and never found any kind of this humanity system in any cultures. i talked about it in libya, they were amazed to the ideas behind the phrase. as we are part of a family, we need to respect every single men (father, brothers, grandfather, other man relatives) as sometimes we forgot to do that, then we need to love women (mother, sisters, grandmother)as they would serves the whole family with their love also, the last but not the least is we need to respect even more our wife's families since they were not part of our family at first but being planted into our family as one.
man...we have to be proud to call us BATAKNESS.
not saying to be exclusive, but there should be something we have to do with it. something we have to implement it in our life. we, people of this days are loosing the meaning of humanity. we need to respect others as they are part of our life.
it's not an easy thing to do, but let's just start to do it from the closest people around us, work college, school mates, neighbours, and many others.
be proud as batakness, and be proud to serve others with pure and simple heart.
-m2n-

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